I’ve written on it, prayed about it, and spent countless hours thinking about it. Simultaneously I’ve both longed for it and pushed it away.
We all want to know someone intimately and with certainty.
And we all want to be known both intimately and with certainty.
To have someone anticipate our words or pick the perfect gift not because we told them but because they know us that well, proves rare and elusive. Even as spouses it’s difficult to achieve then maintain that sort of intimacy.
Saying it and feeling it are fine, but living “I love you” matters for eternity. It matters because it expresses knowing and being known. It’s more than hoping to be known. When you live love for someone they are known. I’m afraid I’m not articulating what I mean very well. I’ll have to think some more…